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Looking for love? Before you get started with online dating, you should read this award-winning book!

“Learning to Dance in the Rain II – Surviving Grief, Internet Dating and Romance Scams” is the award-winning Memoir/Self-Help book by author, Shelby Wagner. It is Wagner’s true and personal story and contains vital and useful information about recognizing and thwarting romance scammers and navigating grief which everyone needs to know. It was written to raise awareness of the huge problem of romance scams which in 2019 became the costliest of all scams ever reported to the FTC. $475,000,000 was lost that year says the FBI. The narrative of the author’s loss of her husband suddenly just before their 50th wedding anniversary is endearing and captivating. Readers report they “couldn’t put it down.” The book was written to help others thwart scammers so they would not have to experience the humiliation and challenges which she faced. You won’t want to miss her story and learn the advice she learned the hard way. Get your copy now online at amazon.com; walmart.com; barnesandnoble.com or order it at your favorite bookstore and see why this memoir/self-help book has currently won nine coveted book awards.
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Shelby’s first podcast with Michael Guberti

Shelby’s first podcast with Michael Guberti. Michael was intrigued at the National Publicity Summit
when he heard Shelby say that her use of the word “dance” in the title of her book is a metaphor, which
means whatever activity a person chooses to do. Her choice was line dancing, but yours might be
walking, or bowling, or shooting pool
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Shelby’s podcast with host Nicole Bent, Oh Hell No!

E. Nicole Bent was another podcaster who wanted to hear Shelby’s story and scheduled her for an
interview. She even wrote an endorsement for Shelby’s book which is enclosed in Shelby’s About Page.

The Train Your Brain Audio

Shelby is still learning to dance in the rain… After six months of grieving the death of her husband,
Shelby Wagner decided to move forward with her life through internet dating. It was a lot of fun getting
to know the different men, meeting some in person, and trying to visualize what life would be like with
each one. The experience turned nightmarish, however, when one man convinced her, he was trapped
and starving in China. Her resistance shattered as she “loaned” him some money, and she soon realized
he had lied. It was a scam. As a result, Shelby set out to create a book that would help others avoid a
similar situation, and she shares her story, complete with red flags to help readers spot a scammer right
away, and actual emails and messages which show the language used to draw a victim in. In case you
didn’t know, romance scams have become the costliest scams ever reported to the FTC, racking up $1
billion lost in the past five years to criminals who prey on lonely vulnerable Americans looking for love.
Shelby says internet dating websites are a good way to meet people, but please read her book before
embarking on what can be a dangerous adventure.

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